Zibby, Though your story is painful to read, you always manage to bring something uplifting. I wish you and the community all the comfort and support that is needed.
Thank you for sharing. We live in Santa Monica Canyon, right below the Palisades. It has been a rough month! We were evacuated for 17 days. We are home now, albeit without clean tap water. So grateful to still have a house. So many feelings - sadness, anger, gratitude. We are grieving for the Palisades, a place we loved and went to often. We are devastated for our friends who lost their homes, for the community that was decimated, for the schools that burned down... We have been helping others as much as possible. What else can we do? Thank you again for sharing.
So sorry for what you are seeing and experiencing. My daughter lives in Sherman Oaks and the air was smoky even there. The giveaways at your store are a wonderful move. You clearly understand what people need now. Kindness can never be over-rated! Best of luck to you.
Wow. Your words moved me to tears, Zibby. Just the description of what you saw. Deserted streets in your neighborhood, burned out restaurants and homes and schools. The devastation is real. I'm sure it was much worse for you to see it in person and walk that road. I'm not one for horror either. From the east coast it looks awful and devastating. How long will it take to rebuild? Where do you start? Good questions. It's hard that friends have relocated but good to get kids back in school and in a routine. It sounds like you're on a second wave of grief. I totally get it. Take care of yourself. If you have to return to New York sooner rather than later, there is nothing wrong with that. Hugs.💙💙💙💙💙
I was in tears reading what you wrote. We are all hurting here in Santa Monica and personally, know so many people who lost their homes, or had to evacuate for weeks. However, on the positive side the best of humanity has showed up, with so many people trying to help others who have lost their homes start over.
Thank you for your honest account of this harrowing scene. I'll never forget the trauma of watching my neighbor's house burn down when I was 3. It affects us, even when we're safe.
If you or any of your neighbors are looking for an experienced California trauma therapist, please visit www.drdeborah.com 💜
so absolutely eloquent, heartbreaking, heartwarming, and then the fun, colorful dress. Thank you for shining your bright colors in the darkness, creating a much needed rainbow of hope, renewal and comfort ❤️
Thank you for sharing those beautiful words. I’m in Malibu and have now been through at least five fires including the Woolsey that destroyed my neighborhood but left my house standing. Thank you for articulating the pain and anxiety we all feel. It’s hard for others to understand, particularly if you are one of the “lucky” ones whose house is still standing. It’s no less traumatic and devastating. Thank you for all you do in keeping this community connected.
I thought that was beautifully written & expressed, especially the last part about how we all experience grief differently. I wish you & everyone who has been impacted by this devastating event, the fortitude & courage to carry on, & please hold onto your community as you are able.
Oh my God, Zibby! Your piece allowed me to feel your emotions and the horror and destruction of your beloved Palisades. Trauma is a 24/7 living breathing emotion that courses through your brain and your body. I know from needing a bodyguard in my own home to being taken at gunpoint in Guatemala. You will continue to experience and relive what you saw. And just because your home wasn’t physically destroyed, you’ll wonder how you and your neighbors will ever be able to live there again. Your shock snd loss is every bit as profound as your neighbors. You’re in my prayers.
Zibby, Maybe consider not giving added voice to those who question your intent. Don't mention them at all. Your gift is your authentic voice. That's my opinion🤷♀️ with love
Zibby, Though your story is painful to read, you always manage to bring something uplifting. I wish you and the community all the comfort and support that is needed.
Thank you for sharing. We live in Santa Monica Canyon, right below the Palisades. It has been a rough month! We were evacuated for 17 days. We are home now, albeit without clean tap water. So grateful to still have a house. So many feelings - sadness, anger, gratitude. We are grieving for the Palisades, a place we loved and went to often. We are devastated for our friends who lost their homes, for the community that was decimated, for the schools that burned down... We have been helping others as much as possible. What else can we do? Thank you again for sharing.
Thanks for making it real for those of us who have no connection to the area and live elsewhere.
So sorry for what you are seeing and experiencing. My daughter lives in Sherman Oaks and the air was smoky even there. The giveaways at your store are a wonderful move. You clearly understand what people need now. Kindness can never be over-rated! Best of luck to you.
Thank you. And as someone who visited the pop up yesterday to get some clothes, what you are doing is helping. ❤️
Wow. Your words moved me to tears, Zibby. Just the description of what you saw. Deserted streets in your neighborhood, burned out restaurants and homes and schools. The devastation is real. I'm sure it was much worse for you to see it in person and walk that road. I'm not one for horror either. From the east coast it looks awful and devastating. How long will it take to rebuild? Where do you start? Good questions. It's hard that friends have relocated but good to get kids back in school and in a routine. It sounds like you're on a second wave of grief. I totally get it. Take care of yourself. If you have to return to New York sooner rather than later, there is nothing wrong with that. Hugs.💙💙💙💙💙
I was in tears reading what you wrote. We are all hurting here in Santa Monica and personally, know so many people who lost their homes, or had to evacuate for weeks. However, on the positive side the best of humanity has showed up, with so many people trying to help others who have lost their homes start over.
What a touching, first hand view of he devastation! Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for your honest account of this harrowing scene. I'll never forget the trauma of watching my neighbor's house burn down when I was 3. It affects us, even when we're safe.
If you or any of your neighbors are looking for an experienced California trauma therapist, please visit www.drdeborah.com 💜
so absolutely eloquent, heartbreaking, heartwarming, and then the fun, colorful dress. Thank you for shining your bright colors in the darkness, creating a much needed rainbow of hope, renewal and comfort ❤️
Thank you for sharing those beautiful words. I’m in Malibu and have now been through at least five fires including the Woolsey that destroyed my neighborhood but left my house standing. Thank you for articulating the pain and anxiety we all feel. It’s hard for others to understand, particularly if you are one of the “lucky” ones whose house is still standing. It’s no less traumatic and devastating. Thank you for all you do in keeping this community connected.
I thought that was beautifully written & expressed, especially the last part about how we all experience grief differently. I wish you & everyone who has been impacted by this devastating event, the fortitude & courage to carry on, & please hold onto your community as you are able.
Your writing evokes strong emotions, thank you for sharing your feelings and incredible descriptions.
Oh my God, Zibby! Your piece allowed me to feel your emotions and the horror and destruction of your beloved Palisades. Trauma is a 24/7 living breathing emotion that courses through your brain and your body. I know from needing a bodyguard in my own home to being taken at gunpoint in Guatemala. You will continue to experience and relive what you saw. And just because your home wasn’t physically destroyed, you’ll wonder how you and your neighbors will ever be able to live there again. Your shock snd loss is every bit as profound as your neighbors. You’re in my prayers.
Zibby, Maybe consider not giving added voice to those who question your intent. Don't mention them at all. Your gift is your authentic voice. That's my opinion🤷♀️ with love
Wow, Zibby. I'm in tears. Thank you so much for sharing what it's like there.